Wait Time Increase

The wait time has increased to FOUR years. We found this out a couple of weeks ago. And it has been so hard to deal with. It is heartbreaking for both of us. We are longing for a child to make our family of 2, a family of 3, and this longer waiting period just pushes that dream farther away. Also, we are wondering what God has in store for us. We are watching and listening for what God's plan is for us. Is it changing? What does He have planned for our future? There is a reason for this extended waiting period. But right now, it is just very hard to see. We are waiting for God's perfect plan. We are longing for answers - what should we do in the meantime - and of course, why?